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Q&A Thursday: How to Deal with Annoying "Friends"

9:00 AM

Do you ever have that friend that you can't get rid of so you have to deal with, or someone that just annoys the bacon bits out of you?? Well, you've given me situations and I'm here to help you solve it. Hopefully with my years of experience of bad friendships, I hope I can help you.

DISCLAIMER: The views and opinions expressed in this blog are for entertainment purposes only and shall not be considered as advice in any way. Neither ahandherbeans, nor its author shall be held liable for the content in this post. I encourage you to seek professional advice or care for any problem which you may have. 

Q: My friend is super competitive and she would always asks me what my grades are, but then she wouldn't tell me her grades. It gets annoying at points but I can't tell her that. What should I do?

A: Since I'm the one who always bugs my friends about their grades, I have to explain what your friend is trying to do, I don't want to compete but to check where everyone is. For example if on a test, my friend who is taking the same course gets a A and I get a B, I know that I should work harder. But normally I tell them my grades also unless I really didn't check. I've also known people who you are talking about, so what I do, is if they ask me about my grades, and you know that they aren't going to tell you about their grades, then just tell them "I didn't check."
or something along the lines of "I failed." The failing card usually works since that person will feel that they did better than you and just stop asking and the "I didn't check card" will probably stop them for the time being, but it's not as permanent as the "I failed". Most of the time, they won't remember to ask you about that specific grade again.
Q: My friend is super obnoxious, she's really loud and curses a lot. She attract attention to everyone around her, so everyone in school thinks that I'm also weird. How do I tell her to stop without hurting her feelings?
A: I think you literally described me. Awkward.... I think of myself as obnoxious also, but the only reason why people still hang out with me is because I have stories, and I listen to people when they talk. I don't know if she wants to do it on purpose. You probably won't believe this is but I hang out with someone that's even louder than me, and what I do when she starts to cut me off, is I literally stops talking to who ever I'm looking at, stare right at her, and tell her to her face, "Can you wait? I'm talking."
That's literally the only way for her to be quiet, but then it starts again. Whenever she is really loud, just tell her, "Hey lower your voice" and then smile, all of these solutions are only temporary though since she's had that kind of behavior longer than she's known you. It takes time to tell her that she's too loud and for her to listen. If you really don't like her, if you are in high school just join a club during lunch with the rest of your friends, and ditch her for one day. Trust me, it will be very relaxing even just for 1 day.
Q: This girl in my class thinks that she's all that, she always tries to talk to popular people, and it really annoys me that she's always like that. Honestly, she is just a girl who is a wannabe.

A: I see no question mark... But I do get what you mean. These wannabes are obviously very annoying and the best way that you can tune them out is by listening to music and physically ignoring them. For example, with the annoying girl who sat next to me in math this year, every time I enter the classroom I would have my music on full blast so it would take her three to four attempts to get my attention and to be honest... These people usually gives up after two tries. Don't let her get to you, it's her life where she wants to waste away in wannabe behavior.

Q: A guy in my class is really arrogant and he's a troll. It gets annoying at times but I can't say anything because we are friends. Should I tell him what's on my mind or should I just let him be?

A: If he trolls you on a personal level such as: "I like you... JK" or "Let's go to homecoming... JK" That's not okay, and you just need to tell it to his face and he should take it like a man. Boys are usually 5 years younger than their actual age, so they think it's natural to do something like that. HOWEVER, if he trolls on a public level, like a general joke... meaning not targeting you... Then you should just let him be since you are so much more mature than him. Arrogance is something that you just have to ignore. There is literally this guy who thinks that he can get every single girl in the whole school with his money... UH NO THANKS!! If you guys are friends for more than 3 years, then tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't stop and it bothers you literally like a 8.0 Earthquake, then just stop talking to him but if you guys have been friends for a year, don't say anything and leave.
I hope this helped someone out there who are having similar problems. The comments are anon and I would like to hear some of your stories. Until next time stay cool ma beans!!
DISCLAIMER: The views and opinions expressed in this blog are for entertainment purposes only and shall not be considered as advice in any way. Neither ahandherbeans, nor its author shall be held liable for the content in this post. I encourage you to seek professional advice or care for any problem which you may have. 

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Memorial Monday: Let's Talk Annoying People

1:19 PM

Okay so right now... My favorite store to buy clothes is Ross and my favorite shoe store is Burlington. I don't even go to the mall anymore because the stuff that I find is seriously all less than $20 at these stores. I have super tiny feet before I think my feet were like size 5 and like last month I bought a pair of shoes that is size 4, and now I can't even fit into size 4 because it is so big. I literally buy all of my shoes from the children's section. Anyways, since these clothing stores are department stores with everything from food to gardening tools... It's no doubt that the people who shop there has no manners.

Let's start with the staff that works there. Ross is like Big Lots (my favorite snack place... I buy tea from there... LOL) anyways both of these places are staffed with old people who are very... extremely... *insert all synonyms of very* grouchy. So this one time, I wanted to try on my clothes and they are like, "PUT YOUR CLOTHES ON THE RACK PLEAAASSEEE. RIGHT NOW!!" I had like 8 different stuff to try on and all of the hangers are all wrangled together so I couldn't put it on that fast and I get this kind of attitude. Basically every single time that I go to Ross, something like that happens. Oh here is another experience that I had, so it was my grandma's birthday, and my mom bought two pairs of the same pants for her to try on, and then on one of the pants they forgot to take off the weird security thing with the ink thing if you broke it... that heavy thing... Yea... And so when my mom and I went with her to return the bigger pants, they were like, "YOU DEMONIC CHILD!!! YOU STOLE THISSSS AND NOW YOU WANT MONEY BACCKKKK????!!!!"
They actually didn't say the beginning but they were basically accusing my mom and I for shoplifting. Second the people who shops there are the WORST!!! They literally do not care about anyone. I've passed by so many people that smelled like fried food, onions, tacos, and cooked things. I seriously do not understand how someone could smell like that and go IN PUBLIC!! There are three Rosses near me, and so today I went to the smaller one. OH MY LORD JEZUZ!!
Since the place is really small AND they moved things around so they are closer together, it is even harder to maneuver around. There was this lady, she was trying on a outer covering in front of one of the mirrors next to the racks and she just left her cart between the aisle, and so when I tried to push my cart through... IT WAS RIGHT THERE!! And you know that thing where you like move your things out of the way when someone is trying to pass??? YEA SHE DID NOT DO THAT!! Oh my fluffy chickens. Then some people just don't say excuse me, there have been so many instances where people just shove pass me. So that's how I spent today. Shoutout to all of the men and women who have sacrificed their lives so I can be alive right now to write this blog. Thank you so much for protecting our country. Until next time, have a great Memorial Day and stay cool ma beans!! 

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WTF Wednesday: Grabby Poopsy

9:00 AM

That doesn't rhyme but it combines how I feel about this person. V is one of those quiet nerds that you don't expect to do anything except learning and being a smart butthead about everything. NOPE. One of my friends was friends with him and one of his friends, so during the summer I worked on a filming project with his friend, then later this year I got to know him. At first, he seemed like someone who was just nice to everyone, especially girls, and ALL of this friends are girls. I don't even know where to begin this, so let's start with how many classes I have with him and our daily routine. I have 2 classes with V, one during third period, and another during six period. As you can see, these periods are pretty far apart but here is what always happens... In the morning, I usually listens to my podcast while I take a quick nap on the car on the way to school. I'm pretty anti social or at least I don't make eye contact with people that I don't know, let alone talk to. Then this guy, he would see me outside of the gate, and then he would walk very, very close to me until I get scared and I notice him. Before this would only happen once or twice a month, but now it's progressed to once or twice per WEEK. Then he would walk me to class, after period 2 I have my first class with him, he would walk with me to that class, then after period 3 he then would walk me to my next class before he heads out for PE. Then after another two periods, when I have my last period, he would walk with me after school, this guy would latch on to my backpack and then people would look at me weirdly. PEOPLE IT'S OKAY, I'M NORMAL!!! One of my friends does this thing where she would take her index finger and draw a squiggly line on my back, it's just kinda her thing, then today, he did the same thing, like uhhh it's only okay when she does it, not when you do it because we are not that close yet. Another thing about this guy is that we have nothing in common, he is one of those super smart guys that everyone wants to hang out with because of his brains while I am someone who is decently smart. He also hates all of my KPop stuff but he loves Taylor Swift so he would often insult any of the guys that I am talking about, which ticks me off because since I don't insult who you like, why do you have to insult who I like??? So rude and disrespectful. I guess he thinks that's funny but in reality, it's not. This guy also is a super gossip, one time this girl that is in his class who is a kiss up moved the test date up, and after I told him, he started spreading that around all of the periods making literally everyone hate the girl. Seriously?? Did you need to do that?? There are already enough people who hates her. Ugh. I can't stand this guy. So that's my WTF story today, get ready for tomorrow's new interview!! Until next time, stay cool ma beans. 

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